How much time do I have to "Serve My Spouse" the papers after the Summons With Notice has been filed in Court?
After the SUMMONS WITH NOTICE is filed in Court and you have obtained the INDEX NUMBER, per the Court rules, you have exactly 120 days to serve your spouse the papers. The 120 days begins when the document has been filed in Court and you have obtained (or been assigned) the INDEX NUMBER.
IMPORTANT (1): Per the Court rules, failure for not serving your spouse the papers within the 120 days can result in the Court dismissing your case and you will have to start all over, which will include paying the $210 fee for the INDEX NUMBER and APS fee.
IMPORTANT (2): If you do not know your spouse's whereabouts, meaning their PHYSICAL LOCATION (address) to where s/he can be served with the papers, then you should NOT start the divorce proceedings until you have been able to obtain the information.
Can I still get a Divorce, if my Spouse "Does Not Sign" The Papers?
YES YOU CAN! After your spouse has been "PHYSICALLY SERVED" with the divorce papers, your spouse can either sign the paper(s) (which will expedite the divorce proceedings) or do nothing.
If your spouse choose to "not sign the paper(s)", you can still get a divorce upon the expiration of the 41-day waiting period (as further explained below).
VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: Per the Court rules, "PHYSICALLY SERVED" is defined as your spouse "being personally handed the papers".
This means that the "Server" (which can be a PROCESS SERVER, SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT, FAMILY MEMBER or FRIEND) has to travel to your spouse's location and give the documents to your spouse, from their hand to your spouse's hand.
After your spouse is served, you will need the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document, to be able to continue the divorce proceedings without your spouse's signature. For more information regarding the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document, please read the information below (same section #4).
The divorce documents CANNOT be served to anyone else (i.e. spouse's mother, father, sister, brother or etc.), only to your spouse.
You CANNOT SERVE YOUR SPOUSE the papers, if s/he is NOT going to sign the AFFIDAVIT OF DEFENDANT document and it has to be before a notary.
VERY IMPORTANT REMINDER:
(1) Per the Court rules, if your spouse is willing to sign the "AFFIDAVIT OF DEFENDANT" document (before a notary), then you're allowed to provide the Affidavit directly to your spouse (in person or via mail).
(2) If your spouse is NOT going to sign the AFFIDAVIT OF DEFENDANT document (or you're not 100% sure that your spouse will sign the Affidavit Of Defendant), then you CANNOT provide the Affidavit to your spouse.
The AFFIDAVIT OF DEFENDANT document (and other required divorce papers) will have to be "PHYSICALLY SERVED" to your spouse by someone else, in order for you to be able to obtain a divorce without your spouse's signature.
IMPORTANT NOTE: If the AFFIDAVIT OF DEFENDANT document is mailed to your spouse and your spouse decides to not sign the document, then your spouse will have to be "PHYSICALLY SERVED" (as explained above and below).
Will the Divorce take Longer to Process if my Spouse Does Not Sign?
ABSOLUTELY YES and here are the reasons why.
1. To continue the divorce proceedings without your spouse's signature, your spouse has to be "PHYSICALLY SERVED" with the divorce papers (as explained above and below).
2. The Court adds an additional 41 days to the divorce which means AFTER your spouse is served with the divorce papers, your spouse has 41 days to decide what he or she wants to do. During this time period your case "freezes" for the 41 days waiting period.
3. If you have to hire a PROCESS SERVER or the SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT, you will be paying their fee to serve the papers to your spouse.
NOTE: In addition, this step will require some time to do because you have to make arrangements with the PROCESS SERVER or SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT to serve your spouse the divorce papers. You have to locate a PROCESS SERVER or the SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT in the COUNTY your spouse resides in.
For example, if your spouse lives in Newark NJ, you would be contacting a Process Server or the Sheriff's Department in Essex County.
Of course APS will assist you as much as possible so your divorce can continue to be EASY & SIMPLE to do!
Here's Is What APS Will Do:
- APS will prepare the divorce papers to be served to your spouse.
- APS will provide a detailed Cover Letter consisting of the instructions for the PROCESS SERVER or SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT to follow.
- APS will prepare the CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE for the Sheriff's Department to complete (if the Sheriff's Department serves your spouse with the papers) and
- APS will review the completed AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document to ensure there are NO errors (as explained below).
NOTE: APS charges a fee of $65.00 to assist with the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE process because this is "additional work" for APS to do.
The "additional work" consists of APS doing ANY of the following:
1. Preparing the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE for you.
OR
2. APS guiding you on how to prepare the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE (if this is what you want to do, but NOT recommended by APS).
OR
3. APS reviewing the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE prepared by the Process Server OR Sheriff's Department (as explained below).
VERY IMPORTANT NOTE (spouse served by a PROCESS SERVER or SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT):
If your spouse is served by a PROCESS SERVER or SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT, quite often what APS have seen time and time again is that the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE (which is a document you will receive from the Process Server or Sheriff's Department AFTER your spouse is served with the divorce papers) may not contained ALL the information required by the Court, which results in the Court "rejecting" your divorce until the Affidavit Of Service has been fixed.
No Worries, because APS will review the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE (you obtained from the Process Server or Sheriff's Department) in its entirety from top to bottom, line by line, word for word, to make sure the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE 100% complies with the Court's rules so your divorce does not get rejected, as a result of filing a "defective" AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document.
For APS to do this for you, it is already included in APS fee of $65. So little in price for a peace of mind.
VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: If your spouse is NOT signing the AFFIDAVIT OF DEFENDANT document and as a result, now have to be served with the papers (in order for you to be able to continue the divorce proceedings without their signature), here is some friendly advice, try to be very very very patient (yes I said the word "very" 3x's) because unfortunately your divorce will take LONGER to process.
In addition, during this time you may feel very frustrated, very upset and very annoyed with the combination of the "additional" time it takes to process your divorce and the "additional" money you may have to spend.
Feeling these emotions are normal and understandable, however, you're not alone. Because you're in the hands of APS (NY's #1 Divorce Specialists), you can rest assured APS will be with you every step of the way until your divorce is finalized by the Court.
What happens if my spouse fails to appear in the divorce action?
After your spouse is "PHYSICALLY SERVED", you will have to wait approx. 41 days after service for APS to file the remaining batch of documents in Court. Upon the expiration of the required 41 days waiting period, your spouse will have DEFAULTED, and APS can proceed to finalize the Uncontested Divorce.
IMPORTANT: In order for you to be able to obtain a divorce without your spouse's signature, you CANNOT serve your spouse the papers.
PER NYS SUPREME CIVIL COURT:
(1): If Your Spouse Resides in NYS, you either have to hire a "PROCESS SERVER", "SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT" OR anyone you may know (i.e. FAMILY MEMBER or FRIEND) that is over the age of 18 years old and a NYS resident (and not a party to the divorce) can "PHYSICALLY SERVE" your spouse the papers.
(2): If Your Spouse "Does NOT" Reside in NYS, and lives in another STATE, then you either have to hire a "PROCESS SERVER", "SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT" OR check with that State to determine if someone else (other than a process server) can "PHYSICALLY SERVE" your spouse with the papers.
(3): If Your Spouse "Does NOT" RESIDE in NYS, and lives in another COUNTRY and will NOT sign the paper(s), then sorry APS cannot take your case (or continue to process your case). This IMPORTANT information will be explained to you via e-mail.
What is an AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document?
If your spouse is NOT going to sign the paper(s) before a notary (as required by the Court to do), and you want to continue the divorce proceedings without their signature(s), then the other option the Court gives you is to have your spouse served with the divorce papers (as explained above).
After your spouse is served with the divorce papers and your spouse fails to appear in the divorce action (defaulted), then you will need a document called an "AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE".
The purpose of the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document is proof for the Court that your spouse was PHYSICALLY SERVED with the divorce papers AND it was done within the 120 days, as required by the Court to do.
VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: If the divorce papers were served to your spouse by a FAMILY MEMBER or FRIEND, then that Family Member or Friend will have to sign the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document before a notary, as required by the Court to do. APS will prepare the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document for you, for a fee of $65.
If the documents was served by a Process Server or the Sheriff's Department, then the Process Server or Sheriff's Department will prepare and provide the AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE document to you.
Does APS Serves The Divorce Papers To The Spouse?
NO! APS does not serve the divorce papers to the spouse. However, if your spouse does accept, sign and return the document(s), then APS can provide the documents to your spouse via USPS or E-mail.
If your spouse has to be served with the divorce papers, please review the detailed IMPORTANT information referenced above.